Life Unlimited Choices

Is It Simpler To Be Troubled Than To Be Content?   The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but the thoughts about it -Instead of making up stories, stay with the facts. “I am ruined” is a story. It prevents you from taking effective actions. I have 50 cents in my bank accounts “is a fact. Facing facts is always empowering -Eckhart Tolle A youthful companion, youthful as eight years of age, as of late inquired, "Is it more straightforward to be miserable than to be content?" When grown-ups pose such inquiries, odds are good that they as of now have an assessment or reply to surrender to you; youngsters by and large pose such inquiries since they truly need to be aware, so I thought about it. It makes one miracle. So I made a few inquiries. One individual said, "Remaining troubled is simpler; it doesn't need a lot of exertion. Dissimilar to being cheerful, it doesn't need an explanation, an idea, or cognizant exertion. Anybody can be despo...

  For What Reason be Reactive When You Can be Proactive?   What is the outrage? When do you become irate? Stop for two minutes, take a piece of paper and answer these inquiries. A portion of the responses that I frequently get to these inquiries are: I blow up when youngsters don't submit to me. I blow up when chided out in the open. I blow up when my partner botches. I blow up when discussed despite my good faith' The rundown is interminable. Whenever we consider ourselves to be second-rate, there is a response and it appears as outrage. At the point when an individual calls us 'donkey', we fight back by calling him 'monkey'. This is a response. Whenever we respond, outside circumstances control us. In the administration dictionary, the word utilized all the more regularly is 'proactive', not responsive. What is the contrast between these two words? The accompanying Zen story illuminates this. There was a samurai. Subsequent ...